Even though many women find the topic of masturbation uncomfortable, it is a perfectly natural experience. Masturbation can help you relax and reduce stress, and it can even improve your sex life. While there is no right or wrong to for a woman to pleasure herself, there are some ways to make the experience even better. Whether it is the first time masturbating or you want to try to increase your pleasure, there are some tips that can make the experience perfect.
It is important to always remember that there is not a “right” way to masturbate. If any of these tips do not sex drivers pleasure it does not mean that there is something wrong with you sexually. All women are different, and what gives on woman an orgasm may not work for another. Here are some tips so you can have the perfect time masturbating.
1. The Mood Is Important
Before masturbating make sure that you are comfortable, and relaxed enough to enjoy yourself. Some women find it helps to read an erotic book or watch a pornographic movie, when they are trying to get themselves in the mood. Light scented candles around the room to set the tone, and if you are going to use sexual toys it is a good idea to have them already out. Thinking about a specific sexual fantasy can also help to get you in the mood.
2. Use Clitoral Stimulation
During intercourse the clitoris is often ignored, while the g spot is stimulated during sex. Many women find it difficult to orgasm from stimulating their vaginas or g spots, which is why it can be so pleasurable to stimulate during masturbation. There are several different techniques women use to stimulate a clitoral orgasm, including using fingers, vibrators, and pulsating shower heads. Some women even include masturbating in the shower as part of their morning routine.
One of the most popular sex toys, vibrators are available in all different shapes and sizes. The best advice is to buy a few different ones to find which sexual toy works best for you. Most women do find that they prefer a vibrator that has different speed settings. This lets you build up to the climax so you can have an amazing orgasm.
4. Stimulate your G-spot
There are vibrators and dildos that are made specifically for stimulating the g spot and it might take awhile to find the one that is right for you. Many women also use their fingers to find this hidden spot. With your hand turned palm up, bend your index and middle fingers to carefully insert into your vagina. The g spot is located at the top, and can be stimulated this way. Some of the best sex toys for achieving an orgasm from the g spot include different vibrating speeds, and are curved for better penetration.
5. Stimulate the Anus
Your anus has thousands of nerve endings that can give you an intense orgasm when stimulated, though it is important to remember that anal sex is not for everyone. A small vibrator generally works best, along with lubrication and remember to never force yourself to have anal sex unless you really want too. It is also a good idea to make sure the vibrator that you are using is wider at the base, so you do not accidentally go deeper than is comfortable for you.
6. Stimulate the Vagina
Dildos, vibrations, and your fingers can all be used to achieve a vaginal dryness. Lubricants can heighten your pleasure, and help to keep vaginal penetration from becoming uncomfortable. Try using different speeds to prolong your pleasure so you can have an intense orgasm.
7. Your Breasts
Many women simply do not think about their breasts when they are masturbating, but they can provide the same amount of pleasure now that they do during sexual intercourse. Some women find it erotic to rub and fondle their own breasts, and even use nipple clamps to enhance their pleasure.
It is important for women to remember that masturbating is normal and healthy, and it can be done anyway that feel pleasurable to the woman. No matter how a woman masturbates, it is important that she is in the mood and feels comfortable. Masturbation should be enjoyable, and it is never anything for a woman to feel ashamed or embarrassed about.